So I always try to see the best in people.

But sometimes it is hard when they are so intent on tooting their own horns.

Bragging, boasting, patting themselves on the back about how smart they are or a job so incredibly well done.

Oh, you’ve got to ask yourself…

Is it all really true?

OR

Do we have perhaps some slight exaggeration going on with a dose of self-aggrandizement, a spoonful of self-promotion, and more than a pinch of big ego?

Perhaps, also the person is in denial as to what their own capabilities — and limitations — really are.

For example, many artists are enthralled with their work and themselves.

“Isn’t this so good?”
“Can you believe I made this?
“Wow, this is impressive, right?”

Sure, there are plenty of talented people out there doing good and even amazing work.

But even then tempering your achievements with a little modesty and balance, like “I do this well, but I need to grow more in that area” — goes a long way to making the admirable talents and achievements more honest, humble, and believable.

Always, people are good at some things, and worse at others.

We all have things to work on and improve, and nobody is so perfect in this world!

We can try to come close — that’s our job to strive for it — but true perfection belongs to G-d alone. ;-)

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Andy Blumenthal is a dynamic, award-winning leader with 30 years of experience delivering results across the public and private sectors. Views are his alone.

Andy Blumenthal is a dynamic, award-winning leader with 30 years of experience delivering results across the public and private sectors. Views are his alone.