There’s this funny line that some managers use with their employees.
It’s when they harshly criticize, pick on, or even bully their hard working and good people.
What do they say when they do it:
“It’s nothing personal.”
Ha, that’s sort of funny, but really it’s sad.
I asked an executive colleague about this and this is what they profoundly said:
“It’s my favorite line when the boss says it’s nothing personal. Of course it’s personal. Is there anyone else in the room!”
When people misuse/abuse their power to hurt others whether at work or even in other situations like with small children or anyone else in a subordinate position:
- That’s not business.
- That’s not professional.
- That’s not being a good human being.
People are not punching bags because someone else is having a bad day.
We need to rise above the occasion and be better than that.
It’s better to be humane, compassionate, and emotionally intelligent.
And not just because someday, we are all in that position where someone bigger is facing off against us.
But rather we need to behave kindly to others, because they too are G-d’s children and our brothers and sisters, and it is the absolutely the right way to behave — whether it’s business or personal. ;-)
(Source Photo: Andy Blumenthal)